- How have you experienced anger in your life? What has shaped your view of anger?
- What are the five principles about anger discussed in this week’s reading?
- Based on these principles, how does God instruct us to handle anger? Which of these instructions is most difficult for you?
- In what ways might anger feel like it protects you?
- In what situations do you most often find yourself becoming angry?
- Consider this statement:
- “If I don’t hold onto my anger, it may feel like I am agreeing with how someone is making me feel.”
- Have you experienced something similar? What was happening in that situation?
- The lesson suggests that anger can act as a “solution” to a deeper problem. Can you think of ways you might use anger to cope with fear, hurt, or vulnerability?
- What belief might be underneath your anger that makes it difficult to let go of?
- When you imagine letting go of anger, do you ever feel hesitant or resistant? What do you think that hesitation might be protecting?
- What beliefs might keep you from forgiving others or even forgiving yourself?